Etiquette
So, I’ve found you at Etiquette, which tells me you’d like to ensure the best possible interaction for us both! a very good thing indeed. Below are a few practical guidelines to ensure our time together feels effortless, discreet and divine for us both from the first hello.
If you’re looking for details on my rates, they are bespoke, due to the wide variation in experiences I offer. Learn more here
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If you have a budget or arrangement in mind, It is polite to mention straight-off-the-cuff, ideally in your introduction. Any sensible suggestion is always welcome.
I feel fully comfortable to politely decline or accept; please acknowledge this without ego.
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While I don’t host from a personal residence in London, I’m very happy to arrange an elegant incall setting for us at an additional cost. If you require me to host, please mention this in your first point of contact.
For those seeking a more seamless luxury experience, ask about my fully arranged suite experience.
4-5* venue please add £300.
Elevated venue: p.o.a.
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I aim to make things as simple as possible.
A deposit acts to claim the time in my diary. It is perfect etiquette to send this within 24 hours of confirming, don’t leave me hanging, otherwise I will open for someone else.
Please be aware international to UK transfers take up to 5 days so it’s polite to update me.
A deposit of 30–50% is required to secure time in my diary, depending on the length of time I am putting aside for us.
For our mutual comfort and discretion, I require light verification matching the name the deposit is sent from — typically LinkedIn or government-issued ID.
Beyond this, the most important part of screening personally is a pleasant correspondence while we arrange!
For shorter notice arrangements, deposits may be transferred once to another mutually agreed date if rescheduling occurs more than 3 days prior.
Longer arrangements are generally not able to be rescheduled in general, unless 2/3 weeks notice is given and necessary rearrangements are made on your side.
In the rare event I must cancel and we cannot immediately reschedule, your deposit will of course be fully refunded.
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Mutual discretion is deeply important to me. I usually like to leave phone comms until the day of meeting, but if this does not suit you, with a mutually agreed gift from my wishlist we can talk in the days or weeks ahead!
I handle personal information with enormous care and expect the same mutual respect in return. I ask that all details of our interaction remain private and deleted after our time together, as I will do myself.
Photography, recordings, or content captured without my knowledge are prohibited.
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The remaining balance is to be settled in cash. Please have a little envelope waiting for me before we meet, with the balance due inside. If we are in a hotel, leave in the bathroom. I will go in there to freshen up on arrival. And my focus will then be all on you.
If you wish to make a digital payment, please let me know in advance.
Perusing and gaining insight into my tastes from my wishlist before we meet is always the ultimate positive first impression.
If you have a high-value item in mind, please consider running it before me first, as I really do want to make sure it is something that I will use and treasure forever.
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Good grooming will get you as far as you want to be with me.
Trimmed nails for if things get rough.
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I do not actively tour.
Instead, I occasionally visit select cities by request and enjoy making the most of my time while there.
If you’re unable to meet in London, a FMTY arrangement is often the best option.
For overnights or multi-day engagements, I simply ask for uninterrupted sleep and occasional personal downtime to recharge.
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I’m happy to accommodate our date at 10pm or later, but this incurs an additional £500 as it makes the next day a write-off for me.
