The Breath: Subversions of play
Sensory deprivation & impact play with your intimate guide,
Eve Osyth
Play — the highest form of research.
Some of the seasoned of us may know how things play out during vanilla with an escort.. How about when we want to switch things up into something more subversive (kinky)? I receive a spectrum of requests from those who have fantasises but never found the moment to instigate with a partner before, to those who have delved into a single, specific scenario for years. (There are those also - who - before a proper introduction, start emailing me like we’re instantly in the roleplay - wildly inappropriate). A level of mutual trust and comfort is required for me to fully sink into what you want to explore with me.
Simply, conscientiously initiating a rendezvous is the way to arrange your experiences with an elite escort.
A warm, insightful intro into you via the vulnerability of sharing your desires in a tasteful way will make me completely open. I’m inspired towards deeper, intense kinky play - the best modes undeniably occur when mutual senses of trust, discretion and consent feel fully realized. Normally this is found when a partner can put themself in my shoes in our initial correspondence.
How will a kinky rendezvous with a High-class Escort play out? What are the risks / red flags?
So, your vision for us to experiment with breath or impact play is on the table with the necessary info (time/location) and deposit securing the date in my diary received too. Apart from the good grooming part, we have only the safe word and what’s ‘off-limits’ to share to each other, the ‘time-out’ word: when one of us gets a bit lost with what’s happening or when we need a ‘check-in’, particularly if it’s our first evening together.
To save you the question — spit-play and broken skin remain my two no-go’s. Always have been.
Breath play with someone new, is always best instigated with you both finding a rhythm. 6 seconds, throat held, 6 seconds let me take a breath. Do a few times then slowly increase the seconds… Your partner needs to know when his or her next breath is coming!
Please don’t block a windpipe. Just pressure on the sides is heavenly enough.
A lot can happen in this situation, due to the fickleness of chemistry. We may delve in for a few minutes, or over a sequence of hours, who’s to say? Someone with perhaps more prior experience will know that a space for subversive play should be one that allows you to feel safe being vulnerable. This isn’t possible without one another’s boundaries (taboos) realised before, or the break / pause that safe words allow.
i’ve seen how it suspends the usual roles and responsibilities someone has on them in their everyday, by performing /attuning to totally different responsibilities in private with me.
How do I ensure someone feels safe and respected in this context?
A high, mutual level of discretion for what happens between us and my need to feel as safe and respected as you do, too. We are leaning into forms of intimacy that maybe no one else has seen in either of us before.